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مشاهدة نسخة كاملة : الرجل العنيد


حبة الكرز
05-02-2014, 05:55 AM
الرجل العنيد وطرق التعامل معه

السلا م عليكم انا قرات هذا الموضوع وستفدت كتير منه واحببت ان انقله لكم لعل وعسى ان نطبقه جميعا في حياتنا وننعم بالسعاده
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الزوج العنيد..كيف تتعاملين

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الزوجة الذكية هي التي تستطيع أن تتعامل مع زوجها بمهارة وفن وحكمة، ولا يوجد زوج يتصف بالكمال، وعلى الزوجة أن تكون على معرفة ودراية بأنماط الشخصيات المختلفة حتى تعرف من أي نمط تتكون شخصية زوجها فتدرك أسلوب التعامل معه.

نتعرض في هذه السلسلة إلى أنماط الشخصيات، سواء أكانت للزوج أو للزوجة أو للأطفال.ونبدأ بالعناد عند الزوج وكيف تتعامل معه الزوجة بحكمة، بحيث لا تفقد هدوءها واستقرار أسرتها.

فالعناد يقابلنا في حياتنا، سواء أكان على مستوى الحياة العامة (الأصدقاء، العمل، الخدمات)، أو على مستوى الأسرة (الزوج، الزوجة، الأطفال، الأخوات، الإخوة، الحموات).

ومن الممكن أن تكون صفة العناد بداخلنا، ولكن لا نعرف كيف نعالجها ونتعامل معها؛ حتى تقينا وتحمينا من السلبية والتأخر والتخلف عن مواطن التقدم، فتمنع عنا الخيرات والبركات.

العناد.. أشكال وألوان

العناد هو ..السلبية التي يبديها الشخص تجاه الأوامر والنواهي والإرشادات الموجهة إليه من قبل الآخرين، وهو الإصرار على الفعل الذي يخالف الأوامر، ويتكون العناد عندما لا يستطيع الإنسان التكيف مع الظروف.

أسبابه:

عدم النضج وانعدام القدرة على التمييز بين الصواب والخطأ.

التمركز حول الذات والأنانية الشديدة.

فقدان أصول التعايش مع الآخرين، حيث يتعلم الأخطاء من الوالدين.

الإصرار على الرأي.

الإجهاد.. فالإنسان عندما يتعب يتصرف بانفعال.

الوراثة من الوالدين نتيجة المعاملة الأسرية التي لا تتسم بالاحترام وبث الثقة في النفس.

أنواعه:

الطاعة بتذمر.

التحدي الظاهر، وهو على استعداد للمعركة والمشاحنة في أي وقت.

العناد الحاقد، وهو عمل عكس الشيء الذي يطلب منه.

خصائص الشخصية العنيدة:

تجاهل وجهة نظرك، ولا يرغب في الاستماع إليها؛ لأنه لا يحب أن يرضخ لأوامر أحد أو آرائه.

يرفض الحقائق الثابتة لإظهار ذاته.

متسرع وغير ناضج من الناحية العاطفية والانفعالات، حساس، ومتمركز حول ذاته، شكاك ووسواس، ضعيف النفس، ينقصه الهدف في الحياة.

قاس في تعامله، ويملك الحجة أحيانا أو الصوت العالي.

ليس لديه احترام للآخرين، ويحاول النيل منهم إذا لم يستجيبوا لعناده أو وجهة نظره.

لديه مشكلة في طريقة التفكير، ويفتقد إلى التعاون والتواصل مع الآخرين والتعبير عن النفس.

هل ترضى الفتاة بالزواج من شخص عنيد؟

هناك من الفتيات اللاتي يرغبن في الزواج من الشخص العنيد؛ لأنه يمثل عندها القوة والشخصية، ولكن إذا كانت الفتاة تتمتع بشخصية قوية فلا ننصحها بذلك.. كذلك إذا كان درجة العناد في الزوج نابعة من شعور بالنقص فلا ننصحها بالاقتران بمثل هذا الزوج.

نصائح للتعامل

وإليك بعض الإرشادات التي تعينك في التعامل مع زوجك العنيد:

الحوار الهادئ الذي يتميز بالتفهم والاستماع.

تقبليه كما هو وعبري دائما عن حبك بلمسات عملية.

التشجيع والتعاون ومشاركته في أعمال مفيدة، ومساعدته على اتخاذ القرارات الجماعية بما يقلل من درجة العناد.

شجعيه وامنحيه الحافز الإيجابي دائما.

تقوية العلاقات معه بالحب والأمل.

عدم إصدار الأوامر له والتحدث معه بقسوة.

البحث دائما عن أشخاص متعاونين معه مثل الأصدقاء والمعارف.

تجنب المواقف المثيرة للانفعال.

اتركيه يعبر عن انفعالاته وأعطيه الفرصة للتعبير عن رأيه.

أعطي له مساحة من الاستقلالية والحرية.

لا تضغطي عليه بكثرة طلباتك.

احتويه بلمسات حبك وازرعي الأمان في قلبه معك.

تحدثي معه من خلال سلوكياتك.. اجعليها رسائل له مفعمة بالحب والحنان.

بالحب تقهرين العناد

لا بد أن تعرفي أن طاقة الحب طاقة شفائية، ولها ذبذبة عالية تجلب الخير وتقوم النفس، وتجعل الصعب سهلا، فلتنشري بالحب والسلام ما تريدينه، وتوجهيه إلى الخير، حتى يتم إصلاح حياتك، وتستطيعين بذلك تحويل الطاقة السلبية إلى طاقة إيجابيةمع تمنياتي للجميع بحياه ملؤها السعاده والحب

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